EVERYONE NEEDS A RELATIONSHIP THAT WORKS

A lot of relationships has crumbled for lack of knowledge; may I tell you that love begin a relation but wisdom up hold a marriage. Let rub minds together and learn how to make our relationships work.
The world might have it's own version of how relationships should be, but in the end how your relationship works will still be dependent on what you want for yourself
The greatest way to have a better relationship is to be a better person. As you grow and have self-development it reduces the impact of negative culture in your life. Your personality is a very important tool that determines whether your relationship will work or not. Don’t be negative; being negative kills attraction and being easily irritated provoke anger. Learn to tolerate and accept people in their own way.
For you to make relationship work; you need to know if the relationship is right in the first instance. So many people are in a wrong relationship due to wrong motive, unnecessary influence, desperation, plastic things such a beauty and money, and character.
Who you marry determine how far you go in life, so you can’t afford to get it wrong even before has barely start. For a woman marry someone of like vision so that you won't work in division. For a man have a vision before choosing a partner, so you can chose the one of like vision that will help you succeed.

Never be the first person to say the wrong words in your relationship. The better you get the higher your rate and respect. The quality of dating is different from marriage. It is one thing to date someone, it another different thing to marry that person. There are so many relationships that have no vision for marriage at the beginning but along the line the woman want marriage but the man can’t find the quality of a home maker in such woman. That buttresses the fact that qualities of dating and marring are different.
Everybody loves to be around people that is fun to be with don’t get too serious, let your play time be more than your serious time. Laugh more, play more and talk more. Become someone who enjoy conversation without feeling board or left out and learn how to talk sense. Be an encourager don’t criticise at every opportunity, learn to support others to success.

Women love to know the truth but doesn’t love to hear it. Don’t terrorise the lady with what God has said to you, and ladies don’t get angry when he is telling what he want in a woman that you are yet to possess if it's the truth then you better work on it.
Whoever it is you are in a relationship with or planning to build a relation that will lead to marriage; make sure the person is a Christian that have a personal relationship with God. He/she should have the fear of God in heart, remember that you drop to the level of your partner as per God as per your relationship with God is concern. Who you marry will change you, and who you marry is a function of your wisdom level.
When you have the fear of God wisdom will follow. What you are is what you will attract, where you are is where you will be found. The kind of person you are is who he is likely to be, like attract like. Often times people want those that have the fear of God, be the right person to find the right person. Wisdom, integrity, being reliable, God consciousness and a personal relationship with God are the quality of a woman or man to be married.
For relationship to work you must become soul mate. You need to have good manners, your level of discerning must be high and you must possess a good comportment to become soul mate with him or her. Do you have a good sense of understanding? Are you observant? Do you take time to study him/her? Can you always be patient? All these are questions you must honestly answer to yourselves because marriage is between two fools.

The value you place on simple basic manners with adequate understanding will help your relationship to a great extent. Been smart and intelligent is not a fruit of the spirit; you become more intelligent by reasoning which is done by applying information. Don’t just place all on attention and resource on looking good, invest in your mental development: get books and read them, don’t just watch movie, watch the news, it is not only social that you can find on the internet learn new thing via Google. How you present yourself does matter but what matters most is the you in the presentation.

A product with good packaging and bad content will eventually leave the market it all a matter of time. Looking good is different from being good. Remember men do the finding women do the positioning; don’t be too desperate to wait for the right man. And know that a man is not just a male but a person of purpose, vision and responsibility.