Some people believe it is impossible not to keep secrets, I for one i am not of that school of thought i believe there should be no secret between two married people and if i was told my wife could have kept such a thing secret from me i would never have believed, we hear, of women who have children for their only to be found out years later that, the children are not for the man, such wasn't the kind of secret my wife kept from me, finding out was very very painful, i was amazed, aghast, perturbed, many are the heavy adjectives that describes how i felt when i came in on the secret, follow